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Summary: Grant learns to cope with his best friend Kofi moving away and finds happiness again.
Synopsis: Grant is devastated when his best friend Kofi moves away, feeling lonely and sad. Over time, he realizes that talking to a grown-up might help. With support, Grant learns it's okay to feel sad and begins to change his thoughts, focusing on happy memories and the possibility of making new friends. He starts enjoying activities again, spends time with other friends, and keeps in touch with Kofi. Grant understands that while it's okay to miss Kofi, new beginnings can bring happiness too.
Themes: The story explores themes of grief, coping, resilience, and new beginnings. It emphasizes the importance of expressing emotions, seeking support from trusted adults, and changing negative thoughts to improve mood. The narrative also highlights the value of maintaining old friendships while being open to new relationships and experiences.
Using Grant's Goodbye in Session
Therapists can use "Grant’s Goodbye" to help children understand and process feelings of loss and change. Discussing Grant’s emotions and coping strategies can teach children the importance of expressing their feelings and seeking support. Role-playing conversations Grant had with his grown-up can help children practice talking about their feelings. The story also provides an opportunity to discuss positive thinking and the benefits of staying connected with old friends while making new ones.
Discussion Questions:
1. How did Grant feel when Kofi moved away, and why?
2. What emotions did Grant experience over the days following Kofi’s departure?
3. Why did Grant decide to talk to a grown-up about his feelings?
4. How did changing his thoughts help Grant feel better?
5. What activities did Grant enjoy that helped him feel happier?
6. How did staying in touch with Kofi make Grant feel?
7. Can you think of a time when you felt sad about losing something or someone? How did you cope?
8. Why is it important to remember good memories and stay positive during difficult times?
About
Summary: Grant learns to cope with his best friend Kofi moving away and finds happiness again.
Synopsis: Grant is devastated when his best friend Kofi moves away, feeling lonely and sad. Over time, he realizes that talking to a grown-up might help. With support, Grant learns it's okay to feel sad and begins to change his thoughts, focusing on happy memories and the possibility of making new friends. He starts enjoying activities again, spends time with other friends, and keeps in touch with Kofi. Grant understands that while it's okay to miss Kofi, new beginnings can bring happiness too.
Themes: The story explores themes of grief, coping, resilience, and new beginnings. It emphasizes the importance of expressing emotions, seeking support from trusted adults, and changing negative thoughts to improve mood. The narrative also highlights the value of maintaining old friendships while being open to new relationships and experiences.
Discussion Questions:
1. How did Grant feel when Kofi moved away, and why?
2. What emotions did Grant experience over the days following Kofi’s departure?
3. Why did Grant decide to talk to a grown-up about his feelings?
4. How did changing his thoughts help Grant feel better?
5. What activities did Grant enjoy that helped him feel happier?
6. How did staying in touch with Kofi make Grant feel?
7. Can you think of a time when you felt sad about losing something or someone? How did you cope?
8. Why is it important to remember good memories and stay positive during difficult times?